How to treat female impotence

According to recent studies four out of ten women in Britain suffer from female sexual dysfunction, sometimes referred to as female impotence. There still are a lot of myths associated with the sexuality of women and a lot is still not understood in mainstream Western medicine.  Sexual dysfunction is defined as an inability to experience pleasure during intercourse.  For main stream medical professionals most women’s sexual problems are not a priority or cause for concern, but for the women who experience  sexual difficulties it can lead to depression, guilt, and feelings of isolation, the breakdown of relationships  and negative body image.

Often women do not seek help for fear of being labelled, fear of being inadequate or through embarrassment. Those do seek help often find that the treatment offered falls short of their needs and results in a deeper sense of despair.

Eighty per cent of women who seek help for sexual dysfunction complain of having no sexual desire, libido, Tiredness, depression, illness, stress, anxiety, relationship disharmony and negative body image. Although it may not appear serious at first, the condition can cause much unhappiness and frustration if it is not talked about and effectively treated.

Mal Weeraratne an expert in female sexuality explains that the mainstream courses of treatment including marriage guidance and sex therapy often prove ineffective because they do not address and treat the whole problem.  Mal who is the founder of Tantric Journey has worked in the sexual therapy sector since 1994 and in an authority on the subject of the female orgasm, he has helped thousands of women regain sexual feelings and lead happy live with fulfilled intimate relationships.

Mal explains how unfortunately, when sex has equalled pain (either physical or emotional), a vicious cycle often sets in and women avoid sex altogether or unintentionally put up barriers known as ‘Body Armouring’.  Wilhelm Reich the pioneer psychotherapist and sexologist who postulated the orgasm theory: That full orgasm is the very centre of human experience and ultimately determines the happiness of the human race, developed the theory of Body Armouring, the process whereby past traumatic experiences are stored in the body muscle tissue at cellular level and as a result the body’s tissues harden, creating tension and blocking energy in the area that has been traumatised.   This means that traces of the emotional content of every negative sexual experience have been recorded in the muscular tissue of your genitals.

Mal explains how past traumatic experiences such as sexual abuse, rape, complicated childbirth, surgery or negative attitudes to sex may all contribute to the lack of ability to orgasm as every unsatisfied sexual experience is recorded in the cellular memory of your body.  Creating an invisible armouring,  that your body creates to reduce its vulnerability to pain, discomfort and possible danger. There is a parallel to this process and this is the reduction in the ability to experience pleasure.

Research has shown that only a quarter of women achieve orgasm through penile penetration, leaving three quarters in need of additional clitoral stimulation. It is estimated that 12 per cent of women are anorgasmic (never reach a climax). In fact because the sexual organs have been subjected to vigorous condemnation from childhood, onwards, the pelvic basin has become a major storehouse of negative imprints, restricting and inhibiting the woman’s ability to enjoy full sexual capacity and preventing the full enjoyment of orgasmic release. In effect the armouring process not only protects from pain, but also from the woman’s own desires and instincts.

Mal explains how his pioneering treatment Tantric Journey can help anyone who wants to improve the quality and well-being of their life, by teaching them to understand the needs of their own body, mind and spirit and being able to communicate effectively to fulfil and gain their needs and desires.

He explains how we are all born free and pure, with positivity and love, which is the natural state of our being. However, throughout our existence we are subjected to a barrage of negative beliefs, conditioning, physical and psychological abuse which slowly builds up layer upon layer of negativity.  What Tantric Journey aims to do is peel back these layers and restore a state of balance and positivity.

Tantric Journey begins with four key practices:

  1. Deep breathing with focus
  2. Body movement with feelings
  3. Chanting with expression of emotions
  4. Tantric Massage to remove negative imprints

Through the practice of Tantric Journey teaching and guidance is offered to teach clients how to become receptive to the four key practices. The process moves at a pace set by the client and helps with sexual dysfunctions, enhancing sexuality; teaching the individual to fully relax and be able to fully let go. Breaking down the layers of negativity and removing Body Armouring, Tantric Journey can help to eliminate aches and pains and help to deal with many negative issues around sexuality leading to a heightened sense of wellbeing and a new ability to enjoy pleasure and sexuality.

More about Tantric Journey and Mal Weeraratne’s work can be found on his informative website www

Female Dysfunction: The Silent Epidemic

Female Dysfunction:  The Silent Epidemic

Contrary to popular belief, the male population are not the only sufferers of sexual dysfunction. Majority of people are aware of erectile dysfunction, impotence and issues that relate to male sexuality , however, it is estimated that four out of ten British women suffer from sexual dysfunction and despite it being common it is still largely ignored.

Mainstream medicine still struggles to diagnose and effectively treat female sexual dysfunction. The symptoms can include lack of sexual desire, an inability to enjoy sex, pain during intercourse, insufficient vaginal lubrication or, even if sexually aroused, a failure to achieve an orgasm leading to feelings of inadequacy, depression and alienation.  According to The Sexual Advice Association, sexual problems affect around 50% of women, making it a common problem that remains largely unheard of.  It seems that most women think they are the only ones in the world to have these problems because all the magazine articles and media coverage are about amazing sex and fantastic orgasms, but there are thousands of women out there who are in the same situation.

Many women still fail to seek treatment due to embarrassment or fear that health professionals will misunderstand them. Talking about sexual dysfunction can become a great obstacle and it is usual for couples to avoid talking about it, choosing to ignore it rather than face the awkwardness of discussion for fear of abnormality.  Indeed it is only as a last resort when their relationships are at breaking point that they search for help.

Fortunately times appear to be changing and women desperate to improve their quality of life are beginning to take action and seek help.  Mal Weeraratne founder of Tantric Journey is a specialist in the field of female sexual dysfunction and works as a trained therapist, helping women overcome their difficulties through Sexual Healing & Relationship Therapy.

Through his Tantric Journey work Mal has helped to release many women from their negative emotional restraints and open a new gateway of self-actualization.  He has treated thousands of women from across the globe to overcome physical inhibitions such as sexual dysfunction, insomnia, inability to achieve orgasm, stresses, body aches and vagainism.  Aiding them to improve relationships or increase intimacy with their partners and even successfully find partners.  Whilst increasing self confidence in women by defeating their deteriorative subconscious ways and allowing them to enter realm of positive energy.

Deborah Sundahl, author and sex educator states, “The negative messages are stored physically, as memories, in the body. By understanding how this “body memory” operates, woman can use a valuable physical technique that can help heal and protect them from all kinds of assaults to their sexuality, from minor to serious”.

The ‘body memory’ stated by Deborah is the same (deeply seated issues)  that Mal Weeraratne works on through different stages of therapy.

The objective of the Tantric Journey treatment is to awaken the Kundalini  also called Sexual  energy of a woman.  With the essence the treatment being  female ejaculation, which is the expulsion of negative female sexual energy during emotional release therapy.  The topic of female ejaculation has been a hotly debated topic in sex therapy circles and although it is a subject that is prone to much mythology; there are supporting researches to state it is not incontinence or a defect of a woman,  but instead a natural process  that every woman is anatomically capable of.  Mal has done abundant research on female ejaculation and its benefits. In addition to his research he has plenty of immediate experience and knowledge on positive outcomes  of female ejaculation through his vast clientele.

Key to the success of Tantric Journey is Mal’s respect and understanding of his client’s needs and condition. The treatments are performed in a safe and secure environment at a pace that is defined and agreed by the client.  Mal says , ‘’I can appreciate the fact, that for many people it may be scary to start this journey. Tantric Journey is similar to taking off in a space shuttle. It’s very noisy at the beginning, making the whole earth vibrate and with plenty of smoke around. But as it goes up into the blue sky through the dark and gloomy clouds, it becomes less and less noisy and uncomfortable. When it enters space it really becomes a smooth, effortless, pleasurable journey.’’

The treatment is a culmination of Tantric Bodywork, breathing techniques, body movement and sound therapy, but it starts with a long consultation where you can discuss, What you wish to achieve from the session, What your fears are and What your boundaries are.  It can be difficult to face the  Fear – Guilt – Shame – Anger – Mistrust that are at the root of sexual dysfunction, but living in a perpetual state of anxiety, feeling concern about sexual performance,  encountering  relationship problems, living with depression, feelings of guilt, or the effects of a past sexual trauma is not conducive to a happy life. All women have the right to freedom from sexual dysfunction and a fulfilling love life.

Pursuing the Female Orgasm

Pursuing the Female Orgasm

The female orgasm is a subject  that does not receive much serious publicity, it is largely misunderstood and remains a mystery to majority of people including medical professionals. According to several major surveys, only 25 per cent of women always climax during sex with a partner.  For majority of women orgasm is elusive, with it occurring infrequently or in many cases never occurring at all.

For many women who cannot achieve orgasm it becomes a source of anxiety and embarrassment with many believing that there’s something wrong with them if they can’t climax to order.  This sense of abnormality only serves to heighten the problem and a sense of despair is often felt by women when they feel that there is nowhere to turn for help.

The media portrays women in books, films and magazine articles as being in a constant state of arousal and being able to enjoy the full throws of sexual ecstasy at any given time. Full throttle female orgasms are a mainstay of modern films, which serves to heighten a feeling of inadequacy and abnormality in women that cannot reach orgasm.

In the West female sexual dysfunction did not receive much attention until relatively recently. Anorgasmia, or the inability of women to achieve orgasm, was never seen as a problem in the male-focused culture of the past. Although we have moved on from the Victorian age where women were expected to do their ‘duty’ and satisfy and pleasure their husbands and bear children and not to be the reciprocates of pleasure; little has changed in the treatment of women who suffer sexual dysfunction. Women who are not able to achieve orgasm often still resign themselves to lives of frustration, depression, and sexual disillusion.

As stated before, anorgasmia is clinically defined as being the inability of women to achieve orgasm, even with adequate stimulation. The emphasis is often placed on the physical with strings of articles appearing on physical techniques to stimulate the clitoris and achieve the desired orgasm, all of which serve to heighten the problem as the real causes often stemming from psychological, social, cultural, religious, and emotional or relationship variables are left overlooked.

The feelings of depression, inadequacy and unfulfilled that often accompany a woman’s inability to achieve orgasm generally impacts on all areas of her life especially her intimate relationships.

Effective treatment is available to combat anorgasmia through a revolutionary treatment called Tantric Journey. Mal Weeraratne is the Founder of Tantric Journey and has worked in the field of Human Sexuality since 1994, both in learning and treating over 3000 female clients from all walks of life in the UK, Holland, Sri Lanka and USA.

Mal treats sexual dysfunctions instigated by deeply rooted problems. These can include:  lack of sexual education, strong religious upbringing, past sexual abuse, negative relationships and high levels of anxiety associated with sex. Mal has helped to release many women from their negative emotional restraints and open a new gateway of self-actualization.

Mal has done abundant research on female ejaculation and its benefits. In addition to his research he has plenty of immediate experience and knowledge on positive outcomes of female ejaculation through his vast clientele.  Through his work he identifies every clients deeply seated problems to work on for elimination and release.

Tantric Journey is an awakening and healing process based on the ancient science of Tantra to help: enhance love, intimacy and sexuality; improve relationships; heal your body, mind and spirit. Tantric Journey begins with Four Key practices:

  • Deep breathing with attention
  • Movement with feelings
  • Chanting with expression of emotions
  • Tantric massage to remove negative imprints

The treatment is always practiced in a client approved setting. Mal says, “creating a safe platform for this uncovering, releasing and resolving of issues is central to a successful treatment.’

Having studied at the International Center for Release and Integration in Mill Valley, California, studying under Dr Jack Painter, the pioneer of deep bodywork in the USA, Mal has gained valuable knowledge and understanding.  He also studied at Source School of Tantra in Maui, Hawaii under Charles and Caroline Muir ( for two years, giving him his CTE certificate and becoming the first Advance Certified Tantra Educator in the UK.

Mal has many heart felt letters of thanks from his past and present clients and the testimonials really do highlight what a transformational treatment Tantric Journey is.